“We’re All Hypocrites!!!”
Sorry if my article sounded a little offensive to any of you, but truth to be told, after years of observations I believe that most of us act Hypocritically!
Let me ask you these questions:
Have you ever felt that you’re a Hypocrite?
Ever said or done something that goes against your believes?
Ever asked or advised somebody to do or abstain from something when you can’t even do it yourself, knowing that it’s the right thing?
Have you ever contradicted your own values with your own deeds and words?
Some may answer with: “No.” to all of the former questions, some other may say: “Yes, sometimes.”, and some may say: “Well, it’s not like that!”
Whatever the answer may be, sometimes we find ourselves standing on the edge of Hypocrisy whether we mean it or not.
Hypocrisy appears in many forms a person can or can’t imagine; in Religion, work, politics, and of course social conduct.
In Religion:
As Muslims, we’re prohibited from acting hypocritically, obliged to be truthful with ourselves first and with other people afterwards, and to let our outside reflect our inside sincerely. Yet some Muslims fall deeply down the wrong way without even recognizing it!
I’ll recall a situation happened 4 years ago, my English teacher was giving us a class about how the Muslims should deal with people who believe in other religions, how to follow the merciful and respectful teachings of the prophet Muhammad – peace be upon him – and deal with everyone with respect and kindness as long as they don’t offend Islam and it’s teachings. And after 5 minutes exactly, I found him saying that: “As MUSLIMS we’re suppose to LIMIT our dealings with those who believe in other religions as much as we can, and let’s start with this; don’t trade with them, trade with Muslims instead!!!”
Ironically, my teacher’s cell phone line is from a company owned by a CHRISTIAN businessman, and ran by a majority of CHRISTIANS as well!
I can state hundreds of situations like this; where people blame their religions on their own mistakes and racism, knowing that the core of all religions is respect and mercy.
Social Hypocrisy:
We can keep talking nonstop about this kind of Hypocrisy. See how some people smile at your face and treat you like a dear one when they’re in need for something you can give, but once they’re done with you, you’re HISTORY!
It takes place between neighbors, colleagues, and even family members!

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In The Workplace:
There’s a situation that we almost see it everyday; when employees try to step on their managers’ shoulders to get a promotion or a raise in their salary, even when they don’t stand looking at them and once they turn their back they don’t stop insulting and calling them with the worst names!

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In Politics:
Recalling the reactions of some public figures, actors, and actress during the “Revolution Of Wrath” in Egypt … January 25, 2011
Day One:
They appeared on the televisions yelling and screaming, asking the President – at the time – Mubarak to step down and let us free, because WE can’t take HIM and HIS regime anymore … 30 years are more than ENOUGH!
Day Two:
After the speech Mubarak gave that made it clear he’s not leaving his position, the same faces, the same voices were on the television once more, but this time were saying:
“Mubarak is OUR protector, OUR hero, OUR leader, and OUR EVERYTHING! And as for those TRAITORS in the Tahrir Square, shut up and don’t ever think you can destroy our country, what you’re doing is POINTLESS!”
It shocked me how they changed in a matter of a night and day, how they didn’t respect and commit to their words whatever the consequences, and how they said that the people in the Tahrir Square are HEROES one day, then in the very next day they turned to be TRAITORS!
Don’t know why they did this, whether they were afraid that Mubarak’s regime will hurt them once it gets back it’s strength and that it’s still very strong or whatever, at the end they’re all on the “Revolution’s Black List” that gathers all Mubarak’s supporters …
Talking about Hypocrisy will never end; it seems to have strong roots deep inside the peoples’ souls and the only way we can get over it is by living a “One-Sided Life”, to be “One-Faced Persons”, and to let our outside reflects what we feel, believe, and think inside.
It’s the time to forget about the masks we change everyday, and wear the same face permanently. Don’t live a double life that will hurt no one as much as it’s going to hurt you.

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Parry El-Wahey © 2012

I’m very glad that you you said the core of all religions is respect and mercy. because in no religion does it state that it is ok to be a hypocrite, Very good post though.. I also hate people who generalize things, or who blame things on different religions… All people are hypocrites because frankly we are all human, all humans are like this and it will never change.. great post..
Still a bad thing to act like this Aby … Of course there’ll always be a hypocrite part inside us, but it shouldn’t control our life is a great way! Specially when it comes to religions because if you don’t know a certain religion and you just met someone believes in it and behaves in a wrong way, you might get the wrong impression about the person and about his religion as well …
we have to accept our faults and make things correct but the general idea or u can say mentality that is delivered by the society from person to preson and happily followed is HYPOCRICY and now it is stated as KEY TO SUCCESS.im not in favour of such mentality,not tolarable for me.Good one PArry
An awful behavior! Only makes you wonder about the real characters you’re dealing with …
Thanks Olivia, I’m glad to see other people who actually “dislike” this “mentality” as you mentioned
I realize that this is an Islamic site and I feel very comfortable here because I lived and worked with and among Muslims for five years of my life. I respect, honor and find truth at the deep core of All World religions and Cultures, including Islam, which I have studied deeply as well as the Hadith. (With my heart, not with my judgement or mental constrictions) I learn and become free to discover the essence as well as the word. I also study, feel and revere other paths to God, the Divine. I am in Love with God, He has many Names. I do not pretend to be anything that I am not nor that which I am! I have not declared, at this advanced age, an alliance with any religion, but many have a lifelong home and eternal devotion in my heart. In the name of..All God, .I submit.
Dear Linda,
I’m really glad to have found this amazing understanding from you. When it comes to religions, a lot of people don’t try to understand each other and get to know what other religions call for, so it really thrills me to read your comment now. And I’m also so glad that you feel comfortable here … I didn’t mean for my blog to be religious, but I just wanted it to be a space where I can share my thoughts and talking about religion is one of my favorite things to do, although some may consider it as a taboo
indeed it is, it’s always a sensitive topic to talk about, even between the followers of the same religion, but it can be also civilized if the people had mutual respect and understanding to each other’s beliefs
Totally agree with you. And lets not forget that a lot problems arise because the lack of communication between the followers of different religions … I believe that if there’s a respectable and civilized way to discuss such matters a lot of misunderstandings will come to an end InSha’Allah!
i was glad that i had one of those civilized talks with a christian girl about various religious topics and i was stunned by her respect to my religion before respecting hers, she was amazing and i admit i was so frightened to even go near any religious talk with her, but thank god it went so well
and sometimes whnvr we chat we go through this talk again
OMG, or as we say in arabic, Eh daaaaaaaaaaaaah
it’s soooooooooo sad but it’s sooooooooooo true
whether we mean it or not we all fall into hypocrisy but it depends on the person whether it’s really intended or not
but since we r not angels and we r only human, and humans sin, and this is one of these sins we all fall in
all in all, am glad to read this article
now i know u r good poet and critic
Da l waqe3 l mo2sef ya fndem
I agree with you, it depends more on the intention. And I understand that we’re not angels, but we don’t have to act like this more often!
And I’m glad that you liked it!
P.S. Being a critic person is not good all the time, especially when you start criticizing everything and let’s not forget yourself too!!
hehehehehe yeah tell me about it
i sometimes drift away and go critic everything but i rarely criticize myself
“hand7k 3ala meen
mafeesh 7ad by3trd 3ala nafso” 
w yo2sfni a2olek en feh nas 3aysha w bttghza 3al nefaq!!!
Sadly, I do the same!!
l2a ana momkn a3tared 3la nfsy … 3ady gdn w momkn lma mt3gbneesh 7aga a3′yrha
sa3b awi el 7war dah bsra7a, bass once u master self critic u become ur own master and u take full control over urself
Absolutely. It takes time, but results are quite good
hopefully i could master that technique
ISA